கொடும கொடுமநு கோவில்லுக்கு போனா....

அங்க ஒரு கொடுமை தலை வீருசு .... I am sure a lot of you have heard this saying ... very true in the following incident happened the week of November 24th .... So as a lot of people know SM and me are long-distance ... so i miss him quite a bit and etc.. etc .. but off-late i seem to manage this pretty well ... of course I have done some work regrading this ... i mean i make a conscious effort not to get all emotional and depressed ... as appa says "suck it up "... i understand this is the situation ... so u wonder what the கொடுமை is .... i have a family friend a young women ... in her early 20s ... who looks up to me ... why ? I dont have a freaking clue .... i have this image of being a good role model ... in family circles ... which i have been told repeatedly to make sure i am ... even though i don't want to be ..ok i am digressing .... so this Kid also has a BF ... long distance too ... but until the week of 24th .... he was just 300 kms away ... both were in the same Province ... so things were going well ... until the bloke had to leave to India cos his contract was done ... everything was fine ... until the night of 24th when i switched on my phone and I had 4 messages ... each one getting progressively bad ... the last one was just sobs .... i was freaking out .... so I left her a message and asked her to call ... the next day .... The next day flood gates burst open ... how she missed her man? ..... etc etc etc.... I mean what the HELL??? Do you realize I am in the same situation as you or in fact in a worse situation ... do you see me roling on the ground crying / yelling and screaming.... i wanted to slap her and tell her to wake up and SMELL the well ... u know what .... BUT of course the polite role model that i am i consoled her ... told her everything would be fine , he won't forget her, everything will be peachy, and that all her every single dream will come true ... that the world is place filled with happiness and what not ........ what A effing hypocrite I am... but what to do ...... But here was the icing on the cake .... 2 days later she calls back all happy ... alls well..hero has reached india safely ... called her as soon as he got of the flight ... and spoke to her for an hour and a half .... and here was his plan in case her parents don't agree to the wedding they will run off to city hall ( Tamilnadu's register office மாதிரி ...) and do திருட்டு கல்யாணம் ...and the joke is ... they want me to come as witness ... hahahahaha ... Good Joke ... first my amma will SKIN me ... next her amma will put me in the என்ன சட்டி (boiling oil..if i may add) .... her sisters will then ... dunk me in chilli powder ..... இது என்னக்கு தேவையா ... இந்த அழகுல நான் ஒரு role model வேற ......


PS: i have to mention that SM volunteered to talk to her to make her feel better , cos he knew given my current state of mind ... i might slap the s**t outta her ....
PPS: athukku oru thanks .....
PPPS: also ... " your friends/my friends... all are our friends" ..... hehehehe CHO CHWEET .....